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Ep. 91 How Inter-Organizational Matchmaking Works
Did you know that Synchrony works with clients from four major Apostolic organizations and many independent churches? What does that even mean, and why does it matter when it comes to matching? In this solo episode,...
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Ep. 90 What Women Actually Want, In Their Own Words
Gentlemen, if you've ever questioned what women actually care about in aĀ dating partner, this is the episode to tune in. We've surveyed and interviewed 500+ Apostolic women at all ages and stages of life, and there...
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Ep. 89 Preparing for Your Kids to Date
One of the heartbeats of The Synchrony Project is to transform Apostolic Dating Culture so that our kids, and other young children, have a fighting chance at truly Apostolic mate selection. In this episode, Megan and...
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Ep. 88 Apples to Oranges: Why You Feel Left Out in the Dating "Marketplace"
You keep approaching people who seem like reasonable matches for you--you're both bringing the same number of attractive attributes to the table. But even so, you're struggling to meet someone who feels that both of...
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Ep. 87 Dating for Power
Dating and marriage has--for most of human history-- been more about power than about love. Maybe it still is! Are your dating preferences about your values, or are they about accumulating power? In this episode,...
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Ep. 86 Listen if You Are Lonely
The New Year can be exciting, and also demoralizing, especially if you expected this year to be very different than the last. In this episode, Megan sits down for a cozy, encouraging chat directed at Singles who feel...
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Ep. 85 Are You Dating Naughty, or Nice?
Merry Christmas! In this (rather unhinged) episode, Megan and Steven talk through some real stories of dating red and green flags that they've seen from real dating couples (AKA their Naughty and Nice lists). We wish...
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Ep. 84 Loaves, Fishes, Babies, and Why We Aren't Ready to Give Up on Matchmaking
The numbers don't lie, and sometimes the numbers of how many available men there are compared to available women feel staggering. In this episode, Steven and Megan chat a bit about the numbers and why God has been...
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Ep. 83 Thanksgiving Special: You're Not Telling Them the Truth About Why You Want to Stop Talking
If you've ever been 'let down gently' by a dating prospect, then you know two things: it's not actually 'gentle,' and it often feels dishonest. You may have even experienced that a few times, and heard the same...
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Ep. 82 Returning to Dating? It Doesn't Work the Way It Used To
If your last season of dating was in the 1980's, 1990's, or early 2000's, then today's dating landscape probably looks like the surface of Mars. Technology now mediates our early dating interactions, and you need to...
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Ep. 81 Does 'Talking' Mean They're Only Talking to You?
So you've met someone, and they seem really interested in a relationship! But then you suddenly learn that they're talking to other people at the same time. Should the 'talking' relationship be exclusive? In this...
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Ep. 80 The Sinkhole Hypothesis, Part 2: We Built A Space for Men
In last week's episode, we talked about the 'sinkhole' swallowing Apostolic men and why we should be paying attention to it. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss why that gap is so difficult to close with...
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