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Ep. 87 Dating for Power
Dating and marriage has--for most of human history-- been more about power than about love. Maybe it still is! Are your dating preferences about your values, or are they about accumulating power? In this episode,...
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Ep. 86 Listen if You Are Lonely
The New Year can be exciting, and also demoralizing, especially if you expected this year to be very different than the last. In this episode, Megan sits down for a cozy, encouraging chat directed at Singles who feel...
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Ep. 85 Are You Dating Naughty, or Nice?
Merry Christmas! In this (rather unhinged) episode, Megan and Steven talk through some real stories of dating red and green flags that they've seen from real dating couples (AKA their Naughty and Nice lists). We wish...
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Ep. 84 Loaves, Fishes, Babies, and Why We Aren't Ready to Give Up on Matchmaking
The numbers don't lie, and sometimes the numbers of how many available men there are compared to available women feel staggering. In this episode, Steven and Megan chat a bit about the numbers and why God has been...
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Ep. 83 Thanksgiving Special: You're Not Telling Them the Truth About Why You Want to Stop Talking
If you've ever been 'let down gently' by a dating prospect, then you know two things: it's not actually 'gentle,' and it often feels dishonest. You may have even experienced that a few times, and heard the same...
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Ep. 82 Returning to Dating? It Doesn't Work the Way It Used To
If your last season of dating was in the 1980's, 1990's, or early 2000's, then today's dating landscape probably looks like the surface of Mars. Technology now mediates our early dating interactions, and you need to...
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Ep. 81 Does 'Talking' Mean They're Only Talking to You?
So you've met someone, and they seem really interested in a relationship! But then you suddenly learn that they're talking to other people at the same time. Should the 'talking' relationship be exclusive? In this...
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Ep. 80 The Sinkhole Hypothesis, Part 2: We Built A Space for Men
In last week's episode, we talked about the 'sinkhole' swallowing Apostolic men and why we should be paying attention to it. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss why that gap is so difficult to close with...
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Ep. 79 The Sinkhole Hypothesis, Part 1: Is This Stealing Apostolic Men?
Where have all the "good men" gone? We've been wrestling with this question for two years, and frankly we didn't want to believe that there was the massive gender disparity in committed Apostolics that people were...
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Ep. 78 Is Weight Loss the Key to Dating Success? An Honest Chat Feat. Liv Hill
If you've battled through difficult emotions around weight and health, and their relationship to your dating life, thisĀ one is for you. In this episode, Megan sits down with Certified Nutrition Coach Liv Hill, who...
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Ep. 77 Why Marriage Didn't Fix Our Porn Problem, Part 2
Please note: This episode will cover topics suited to adult audiences, including pornography, sexuality, and addiction.
This is our second episode containing a frank discussion about pornography addiction and its...
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Ep. 76 Why Marriage Didn't Fix Our Porn Problem, Part 1
Please note: This episode will cover topics suited to adult audiences, including pornography, sexuality, and addiction.
Hey folks: Steven and Megan here. This episode is a deep dive into our personal history with...
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