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Ep. 31 Rating the Advice Singles Hear CONSTANTLY
"Follow your heart!" "Plenty of fish in the sea!" "When you meet him/her, you'll KNOW."Apostolic singles hear these phrases all the time, but are any of them actually advice worth following? In this episode Megan and...
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Ep. 30 Apostolic Age Preference: A Data Dive
Lots of research has shown that, on average, women trend toward partnerships with older men, and men trend toward partnerships with younger women. Do those trends hold up for our community of Apostolic Singles? In...
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Ep. 29 Cultivating Confidence
We often talk about confidence as if it's an inborn quality--something that you either have or you don't. But confidence can be built, and in this episode Megan and Steven cover three key tips for cultivating the...
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Ep. 28 Updates
In this laid back, introspective episode, Megan and Steven share some upcoming changes to their work and home life and how they're making more space for Synchrony and using their values to chart the course.Â
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Ep. 27 The Paradox of Choice
With dating apps, we have hundreds or thousands of available singles at our fingertips, but we still feel more disconnected, hopeless, and lonely than ever before. Why? In this episode, Megan and Steven unpack the...
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Ep. 26 Distance
Long-distance dating has it's challenges, but it also has some perks! In this episode, Megan and Steven talk about the pros and cons of dating from far away, with some insight for how it worked in their own...
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Ep. 25 Fourteen Questions from Pastors
Stop what you're doing and send this to your pastor or Singles ministry leader! In this episode, Steven and Megan answer 14 frequently-asked questions from church leaders about The Synchrony Project and how it can...
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Ep. 24 Rejection
It's unavoidable, even though we'd all love to avoid it. Is there a way to experience rejection that's actually beneficial and not harmful? In this episode, Megan and Steven talk about how to respond to rejection in...
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Ep. 23 Our First Year of Synchrony: Growth and Gratitude
In this episode, Megan and Steven celebrate the anniversary of the first Synchrony consultation, way back in July of 2023. They discuss their challenges, high points, and hopes for the Project, and look back on some...
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Ep. 22 Headed to an Apostolic Conference? You Need This!
Conferences, camps, and rallies aren't great places to make dating connections, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make the most of the social opportunity!  In this episode, Megan and Steven teach you how you can...
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Ep. 21 "Men Are More Visual" and Other Excuses for Focusing on Appearance
Are men actually more "visual" than women, or is that a trope we've been using to justify an unhealthy focus on physical appearance? In this episode Megan and Steven dive into that with a reasonable amount of research...
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Ep. 20 Could You Date a Gamer? Coffee with Friends
In this (rather unhinged) episode, Megan and Steven sit down with longtime friend and longer-time gamer Edward Cruz, who also happens to be a Hyphen Young Adult Ministry Leader. Together they navigate a complex...
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