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Ep.15 Are Dating Barriers Keeping You Single?
If you struggle to make connections with new people, this one is for you. Dating barriers block connection and prevent others from seeing who you truly are and how closely you fit their values--they don't have...
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Ep. 14 Rethinking "Waiting on the Lord"
Telling Singles to "Wait on the Lord," is one of the oldest plays in our Apostolic Dating playbook, but it also might be encouraging Singles into a state of paralysis in their search for a partner. What if "waiting"...
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Ep. 13 We Went to a Hyphen Rally: Here's What We Learned
Hyphen--the young adult ministry of the UPCI--puts together amazing events to minister to the souls of young singles. But these aren't the right places to find dating partners, and we know because--we asked! In this...
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Ep. 12 Smart Women, Gentle Men
What do women with advanced degrees and softspoken men have in common? In this episode, Steven and Megan discuss two types of Apostolic Singles who have a hard time finding their place in our dating culture, and...
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Ep. 11 Behind the Scenes of Your Synchrony Date
You may have a lot of questions about what actually goes on when you meet someone for the first time through The Synchrony Project, and in this episode Megan and Steven try to answer them all. They'll take you into...
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Ep. 10 The Only Two Dating Decisions You’ll Make
You only need to know how to make two types of decisions in your dating journey: we call them  Type 1 and Type 2. In this episode Megan and Steven break down the details of what these decisions are and how you can...
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Ep. 9 Pursuit: I do not think it means what you think it means.
Men are supposed to be the "pursuers" in dating relationships, according to our culture. But what does that actually mean? What if our expectations for the pursuit are holding us back from real connection? In this...
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Ep. 8 Matchmaking vs. Masculinity
Fishing guides. Hunting guides. Personal trainers. Realtors...and Matchmakers? There's an unlikely common thread in these professions, and if you're an Apostolic man looking for a relationship you probably need to...
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Ep. 7 Why Matchmaking?
Apostolic Matchmaking: it's not from the Old Country, and it's not a new reality show. In this episode, Steven and Megan discuss why matchmaking is the right tool for Modern Apostolic Dating, if it's Biblical, and if...
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Ep. 6 The Burden of Loneliness
Edit:Â Megan states that The Synchrony Launch is happening on August 1st; this should have been April 1st.What is the wound of loneliness doing to the Body of Christ? In this episode, Megan and Steven scratch the...
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Ep. 5 Where Did Apostolic Dating Culture Come From?
Spoiler: it didn’t come from Scripture. In this episode we discuss the influences that inform how Apostolic people form expectations about what dating looks like, and where we can do a better job of separating...
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Ep. 4 What 300 Apostolic Singles Have Taught Us
In this episode, we (Megan and Steven) unpack the survey and interview data gathered during the beta testing of the Synchrony approach. We began surveying Apostolic Singles during the summer of 2023 and have gathered...
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